As you can probably guess, I’ve had sex a lot of times with a lot of people and I had sex before marriage. For the sake of honesty on my blog, I’ve had sex with 16 people including my ultimate lover Heath. I had sex for the first time the summer of my 17th birthday and I have barely ever stopped since. .
I guess I just have a few random thoughts about sex and love and my personal loveolution:
-Ex Lovers: Really, I had a nice time. I’m sorry if I hurt you. I forgive you if you hurt me.
-Heath: You are my true life destiny. Destination you. The moment we met there was magic. We were transported in time and space and dimension. I loved the way you held my hand, the way you looked into my eyes, and the way you touched me. Then I couldn’t leave you. I just didn’t want to go home. You were so crafty. You made me laugh and smile. You saw the real me behind all my masks and you weren’t afraid to set me free. I love to make love with you. Oh, what would life be without you? I’m so grateful to only ever share the moment of conception with you. Wow, did that blow my mind! A real act of submission. Then we were so blessed to have a pregnancy and for me to give birth naturally to our beautiful, smart and kind baby girl. You’re a great father. I’m grateful for every day of my life that is filled with loving you. You are sexy, you are handsome, you are fit, you are strong, you are intelligent, you are compassionate, you are generous, and you are patient. We are a perfect match. I thank God for making you. You are my knight in shining armor. You are the answer to all of my prayers.
-I have no regrets about anything in my past. Every moment lead me to be the person I am today. It didn’t happen a different way.
-Love really matters. Every day we have chance to love others and to love ourselves.
-Sex and love are not unrelated. I used to think the other way and I learned through experience that I was plain wrong. Oxytocin, the love hormone or the love drug, is released in large quantities when we have sex. It’s the same hormone that causes a woman’s uterus to contract so she gives birth to a child. Oxytocin has the effect that it makes you feel in love. A child is a union between both parents, both sexual partners. Half of each parent’s DNA is in their child. A child is an expression, a physical representation of his or her parents’ love. The moment when a man and a woman love each other so much that they come together, they are united, they have sex, a new soul is brought to the world.
-When Heath and I became Christians, we decided to get married and start having children. We felt that we were already married in God’s eyes. We wanted to fufill His command to be fruitful and multiply. But I can’t say this is the right choice for everyone. Sexuality and fertility are personal topics. I don’t judge anyone for having sex while waiting to get married or having sex without the intention of getting married. Heath and I were together for 2 years before we got married and they were beautiful times filled with lots of love. I cherish the time that we spent together as a couple, getting to know each other and falling, easily, more deeply in love with each other.
-This post is not an invitation to have sex with me. I’m done with that! I am happy and complete to be in a monogamous relationship with Heath! I could go on and on about how great that is. Let’s just say I am a happily married wife.
On those notes, I will end with some of my favorite bible verses about sex and love:
Genesis 2:24-25: Therefore, a man is leaving his father and his mother and he cleaves to his woman and they become one flesh. And they were both naked, the human and the woman of him, and they were not ashamed.
Genesis 3:16: To the woman he said to increase I am increasing grief of you and pregnancy of you in grief you shall birth sons and to man of you impulse of you and he shall rule in you.
Genesis 6:2: And the sons of God are seeing that the daughters of the humans are good and they are taking for them women from all whom they choose.
Song Of Songs 2:7: I charge you, daughters of Jerusulem, in gazelles or in hinds of the field, do not awaken the love until which it is desiring.
Mark 10:9: What therefore the God yokes together let no human be separating!